Lesley,ohh,I understand your curiosity,and I don’t take it as judgment at all😊.I’m comfortable telling you,I just prefer we don’t rush into everything at once. It’s not something I usually talk about openly,not because I’m hiding anything,but because it’s personal to me,and I only share it with someone I feel truly close and safe with. I hope you understand that,and I’m sure with time you’ll see I’m being honest with you❤️.