But this shortcut comes at a cost. The longing that fuels the affair is rarely satisfied in the long run because it is not only about the lover, but about the self. Affairs ignite passion not because the other person is necessarily extraordinary, but because they awaken a part of us that feels extraordinary. They shine a light on unmet needs — the need to feel attractive, to feel playful, to feel powerful, to feel special.
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