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von ostate582Ladies and gentlemen,
It’s so easy to be swept away by the opinions of others. We live in a world where judgment is often the loudest voice, where expectations can feel like chains, and where doubts can cloud the path ahead. But I want to talk to you today about something different — about how we can rise above the noise, silence the critics, and emerge stronger, no matter the challenges life throws our way.
We all know that life is not a straight path. It’s a winding journey, filled with ups and downs, twists and turns. And let me tell you something — when you decide to follow your passion, to chase your dreams, there will be people who don’t understand. There will be those who question your every move. They may try to tear you down, tell you it’s too hard, or that you’ll never make it. But I say to you — let them hate.
Yes, you heard me right. Let them hate you. Because every ounce of negativity thrown your way is just fuel for your fire. Let them watch as you rise, as you overcome, as you create the life you were meant to live. Don’t waste your energy trying to please people who will never understand your vision. Don’t let the judgments of others hold you back from what you are capable of.Resilience isn’t something you’re born with. It’s something you build, brick by brick, moment by moment, through every setback and every storm that tries to shake your foundation. There will be days when the world feels like it’s spinning too fast, when everything you’ve worked for seems to slip through your fingers, when people you trusted disappoint you, and when your own reflection in the mirror feels unfamiliar. And yet, even in those moments — especially in those moments — you have a choice: to give in or to get up.
Getting up doesn’t mean you aren’t hurt. It doesn’t mean you’re not tired. It means you choose not to let the pain define you. It means that even when your voice shakes and your knees tremble, you still rise. Because that’s what resilience is — not perfection, not having it all figured out, but choosing to continue, even when it’s hard, especially when it’s hard. It’s saying, "This didn’t break me. I’m still here."
Every scar you carry, every failure you’ve faced, every time you’ve had to start over — they’re not signs of weakness. They’re your medals. Proof that you’ve fought battles and lived to tell the story. And the world needs to hear your story. Not the polished, filtered version, but the real one — the one where you struggled, where you doubted, where you almost gave up, but didn’t.
Resilience means giving yourself permission to feel every emotion — to cry, to scream, to fall apart if you need to — and then picking yourself up and choosing to believe that the best is yet to come. It’s not about being unaffected by life; it’s about being unstoppable in spite of it. And it’s in those quiet moments, the ones where no one is watching, where your strength is forged.
Let people see the fire in your eyes after you’ve been through the storm. Let them wonder how you’re still standing. Because resilience is not just surviving — it’s thriving. It’s looking at everything you’ve been through and saying, “Yes, I’m still here. And I’m not going anywhere.”Success is one of those words that people throw around a lot — and often with their own version of what it should look like. For some, it's fame. For others, it's money, a perfect relationship, a certain number of followers, awards, a title, a big house, or a flawless résumé. But here’s the truth that took me years to fully embrace: success has no universal definition. It is deeply personal, and only you have the right to define what it means in your life.
The world will try to sell you its version of success from the moment you take your first step. You'll be handed invisible checklists — go to the right school, get the right job, marry at the right age, have kids, climb ladders, follow the script. And if you dare to stray from that script? Suddenly, you're labeled as behind, lost, rebellious, or even selfish. But what if — and hear me on this — what if not fitting into the mold is exactly what you were meant to do? What if you were never meant to follow someone else’s version of a perfect life?
It took me a while to realize that I didn’t want a life that looked good only from the outside. I wanted a life that felt good on the inside. That’s what success is to me — waking up in the morning knowing that I’m living on my own terms. That the choices I make reflect my values, my priorities, and my purpose — not someone else’s expectations. That I’m not acting out a role someone else cast me in, but rather writing my own story, one bold page at a time.
You can’t control how the world sees you. You can’t live your life trying to be someone else's version of ‘enough.’ Because when you do that, you shrink. You dilute your fire. You mute your own voice to fit into a chorus of people singing someone else’s tune. But when you define success for yourself, something amazing happens — you start making decisions that align with who you really are. You find peace in the chaos. You stop chasing and start creating.
Whether your version of success is building a company, raising children, traveling the world, healing from trauma, writing a book, or simply choosing happiness every single day — that’s valid. That’s powerful. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for the life you choose. You just owe it to yourself to make sure that it’s yours.
Because in the end, it won’t matter how loudly the world clapped for you if you were performing someone else’s play. What matters is whether you showed up as yourself, unapologetically, and built a life that you can call your own.
We live in an age of instant gratification. Likes, shares, fast results, overnight success — or at least the illusion of it. Everywhere you turn, you’re being told that if you’re not seeing big wins now, if you’re not going viral, if you’re not getting recognized immediately, then you’re not doing enough. But let me tell you something real: true success — the kind that lasts, the kind that fulfills you — takes time. And the only way to get there is by playing the long game.
It’s easy to feel discouraged when you don’t see results right away. When you’ve put in months or even years of effort and still feel like you’re stuck in the same place. But what you don’t see in those Instagram posts or shiny headlines is the grind behind the scenes — the years of quiet hustle, the sacrifices, the sleepless nights, the self-doubt, the persistence in silence. That’s the part people skip over because it’s not glamorous. But that’s where greatness is built.
You have to fall in love with the process, not just the outcome. Because if you're only chasing the moment when the world claps for you, you'll burn out long before you get there. You need to find meaning in the everyday effort — in getting 1% better, in showing up when no one is watching, in building brick by brick even when the results aren't obvious. That’s the long game — the relentless pursuit of something bigger than a fleeting high.
There will be detours. You’ll question yourself. People will pass you by. Some will reach milestones before you. That’s okay. Your journey isn’t supposed to look like anyone else’s. Don’t let the pressure to "keep up" make you abandon the work that matters most. Don't sacrifice purpose for speed. Just because it’s taking time doesn’t mean it’s not happening. Sometimes the most powerful transformations are the slowest ones.
You don’t plant a seed and expect a tree the next day. You water it, you nurture it, you protect it — even when nothing seems to be happening. Because deep down, you trust that one day, something will break through the soil and bloom. That’s what it means to focus on the long game. It’s not about being patient — it’s about being committed. Committed to your path, your purpose, your vision — even when it’s invisible to the outside world.
The truth is, anyone can sprint. But only a few have the stamina, the heart, and the vision to keep going when the applause stops. To keep building when nobody notices. To keep believing when the finish line feels miles away. And that’s what separates those who simply start from those who actually make it.
There’s a voice inside you that knows. It’s not loud. It doesn’t scream. It doesn’t beg for attention like the noise around you does. But it’s there — calm, steady, honest. It’s the part of you that knows when something feels right, even if it makes no sense to anyone else. It’s the part that knows when to walk away, when to stay, when to fight, and when to take a leap into the unknown. That voice is your intuition. And it is one of the most powerful tools you will ever have — if you dare to trust it.
We grow up being trained to doubt ourselves. We’re told to listen to authority, to play by the rules, to seek validation from teachers, bosses, peers, and the world at large. We’re taught to be logical, to make decisions based on data and opinions and what’s “realistic.” And while logic has its place, sometimes the most transformative decisions in your life won’t make sense on paper. Sometimes the best move you’ll ever make is the one you feel in your gut — even if no one else understands it.
You won’t always have the answers. You won’t always know what’s coming next. And that’s okay. But when you stop chasing certainty and start trusting yourself, everything changes. Intuition is your inner compass. It’s what keeps you grounded when everything feels uncertain. It’s what tells you to keep going when your head is full of doubt, and what tells you to stop when the world is pushing you forward but something inside says, not this.
The problem is, we often silence that voice. We second-guess it. We overthink. We take polls, ask for opinions, search for signs in everyone and everything but ourselves. But no one lives your life. No one else carries your dreams. No one else has your heartbeat. So why would anyone else’s voice matter more than your own?
Some of the most defining moments in my life happened because I trusted that small, persistent feeling — even when it terrified me. Even when it made no sense. Even when the outcome was uncertain. And it never led me wrong. Not because it always gave me the easiest path, but because it gave me the right one — the one that made me grow, stretch, learn, and step into more of who I was meant to be.
You don’t need to explain your instincts to anyone. You don’t need to justify your path. Trust is a muscle, and the more you listen to that voice, the stronger it gets. The more you act on it, the more clearly it speaks. And eventually, it becomes second nature — not just a whisper you hear in moments of confusion, but a force that guides your every step.
So when you’re standing at a crossroads, unsure of what to do, and the world is shouting a thousand different things — go quiet. Breathe. Listen. Because the truth isn’t out there. It’s already inside you. Always has been. You just have to trust it enough to follow it, even if you have to walk alone for a while. Because that path? That’s where your power is waiting.You know you’re doing something real when people start talking. The whispers, the judgment, the rolled eyes, the criticism dressed up as concern — it comes with the territory. And while it can sting, it’s also a sign. A signal that you’re no longer playing small. Because here’s a hard truth no one likes to say out loud: if everyone likes you, you’re probably not pushing hard enough.
You will be too much for some people. Too loud, too quiet, too ambitious, too emotional, too direct, too different. And no matter how carefully you walk, how gently you speak, how hard you try to please, there will still be someone who disapproves. So instead of contorting yourself to fit into someone else’s comfort zone, ask yourself: why am I shrinking to fit spaces I was born to outgrow?
The hate isn’t about you. It’s about what you represent. When you show up with confidence, when you refuse to play by outdated rules, when you challenge the status quo simply by existing unapologetically — it makes people uncomfortable. You become a mirror reflecting everything they haven’t dared to be. That discomfort? That’s their burden, not yours.
So, let them talk. Let them misunderstand you. Let them roll their eyes. Because behind every insult, every online comment, every moment someone tries to dim your light — there’s proof that you’re touching a nerve. You’re making waves. You’re not invisible anymore. And that, in itself, is power.
Think about the people who inspire you most. The rule-breakers, the trailblazers, the ones who changed the game — none of them had an easy path. They were ridiculed, rejected, doubted, dismissed. But they kept going. And they turned the noise into fuel. They didn’t beg for acceptance. They let the hate sharpen them, not stop them.
It’s tempting to want to be liked by everyone. But approval is a moving target, and chasing it will leave you exhausted and empty. What matters more is being respected — and that starts with respecting yourself enough to stand firm in your truth, even when it’s unpopular. Especially when it’s unpopular.
When you make peace with being misunderstood, you set yourself free. Free to speak your truth. Free to take bold risks. Free to stop apologizing for existing in full color. And over time, that freedom builds momentum. That momentum becomes success. And the same people who once criticized you? They’ll watch. Some in silence. Some with admiration they’ll never admit. And some will still hate — but by then, you won’t care. You’ll be too focused on building, growing, and living fully.
So don’t be afraid of the hate. Use it. Channel it. Let it remind you that you’re doing something bold, something different. Let it strengthen your skin and sharpen your focus. Because if they’re talking, it means you’re not invisible. And that’s the first step toward being unforgettable.
You can be the most driven, most talented, most resilient person in the room — but if you are constantly surrounded by people who drain you, doubt you, or diminish your light, it will wear you down. No matter how fierce your inner fire is, your environment matters. The people you keep close to you, the ones whose voices you let in — they shape you. They either fuel your growth or quietly sabotage it.
Not everyone deserves a front-row seat to your journey. And just because someone has known you forever doesn't mean they’re meant to walk every chapter of your life with you. Loyalty isn’t about staying stuck in relationships that keep you small. It’s about recognizing who sees your vision, who respects your evolution, and who truly wants to see you win — not just when it benefits them, but when it challenges them too.
The truth is, when you start leveling up — when you start stepping into your power, making different choices, walking away from mediocrity — not everyone will celebrate it. Some people liked you better when you were more insecure, more manageable, more easy to overlook. Your growth will be uncomfortable for people who haven't found the courage to grow themselves. And that’s okay. You’re not here to dim yourself to make others feel comfortable. You’re here to rise — and that rise requires community, not spectators.
Find the people who speak life into your dreams, not just when things are going well, but when you’re doubting yourself. The ones who remind you who you are when you forget. The ones who don’t feel threatened by your ambition, but inspired by it. These people may not be the loudest or the most popular, but their energy will be undeniable. They’ll see you clearly. And they’ll hold you accountable to your highest potential, not your past.
Sometimes, lifting yourself up starts with letting go. Letting go of old friendships that are built on gossip, not growth. Letting go of mentors who box you in. Letting go of partners who love the idea of you but not the reality of your evolution. It hurts, yes. But it’s necessary. Because your time and energy are sacred — and you should spend them with people who don’t just clap when you win, but who are willing to stand in the trenches with you when you’re still figuring it out.
And let’s be real — you also have to be that person. Be the one who supports without envy, celebrates without comparison, uplifts without judgment. Your vibe attracts your tribe. So if you want to be surrounded by people who lift you up, be willing to do the same. Great relationships are built, not stumbled into. They’re a choice. A commitment. A reflection of how much you value not only your journey but the energy that shapes it.
At the end of the day, your environment can either water your roots or poison them. So choose wisely. Protect your peace. Surround yourself with people who remind you of your power when the world tries to convince you you’re powerless. That circle, no matter how small, will be the foundation that holds you steady through every storm and helps you rise even higher when the sun finally shines again.There will be days when getting out of bed feels like a battle. Days when the weight of doubt, exhaustion, fear, and failure sits heavy on your chest. Days when you question whether your effort is even worth it. When you’ve done everything “right,” but still feel like the world isn’t noticing. And it’s in those exact moments that your power is forged — in the quiet, unseen decision to keep showing up.
Consistency isn’t glamorous. It’s not the part people applaud. It’s not the part that goes viral. But it’s the foundation of every success story you’ve ever admired. Every win you see from the outside is built on a thousand days of repetition, of discipline, of showing up when it was boring, when it was hard, when it made no sense. Talent can open doors, luck can create moments, but the people who go the distance — the ones who truly last — are the ones who refused to quit, no matter how invisible they felt.
Showing up doesn’t mean you always arrive at full strength. It doesn’t mean you always feel brave, or certain, or confident. It just means you don’t let the fear win. It means you honor your dream enough to give it your presence, even when your energy is low and your heart is tired. You show up messy, but you show up. You show up confused, but committed. You show up heartbroken, but hungry for what’s still possible. Because the act of showing up — again and again — is what separates those who only talk about their potential from those who actually live it.
The truth is, people will underestimate you. Life will test you. You’ll get knocked down, over and over. And sometimes, no one will be there to cheer you on or tell you it’s worth it. But that’s where your strength becomes unshakable. That’s where you realize that your journey doesn’t depend on anyone else’s applause. That the power has been in your hands all along. You just had to keep choosing it — day after day, moment after moment.
So keep writing even when the words won’t come. Keep building even when the blueprint falls apart. Keep training, creating, dreaming, speaking, standing — even when the progress is so slow you can’t see it yet. Because there will come a day when all those hours, all those efforts, all those unseen victories will compound into something undeniable. And when they ask how you made it, your answer will be simple: I didn’t stop. I kept showing up.
You don’t need a perfect plan. You don’t need a miracle. You just need to keep going — not because it’s easy, but because you are worth the effort. And as long as you keep showing up, you’re not losing. You’re building something real. Something that lasts. Something that the world will eventually have no choice but to recognize.
So let them hate you. Let them doubt you. Let them whisper and question and try to put you in a box too small for the fire you carry. Because your life is not about their comfort — it’s about your truth. You weren’t born to be agreeable. You weren’t made to blend in. You were built to rise, to disrupt, to own your story in every shade of messy, fierce, and unstoppable.
This journey will test you. It will stretch you. It will break pieces of you — but only the pieces that were never meant to stay. And every time you choose to stand tall anyway, every time you define success on your own terms, every time you trust your gut, take the long road, face the hate, protect your circle, and show up again… you are proving something to the world. But more importantly, you are proving something to yourself.
You’re still here. And that’s no small thing.
So hold your head high. Keep walking. Keep building. Keep becoming. Because the people who changed the world — they didn’t wait for permission.
And neither should you.
