I caught my neighbour doing this honey trick to get stokstyf right around the time my husband was struggling with ukungabi namandla. In the end I couldn't resist, I let him test it out on me. Pay close attention if you really want to get hard, bhuti. Stop trying to increase blood flow. Actually, that's exactly what's making your Jakob go soft all the time. You don't need to push more blood down there. You need to get rid of the castrating hormone.